Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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I got ran out of church camp last night. Joe acted like he didnt really want me there, but didnt say no. Both boys were having a hard time and wanted to leave. His main complaint was that there would be no room, but told me to talk to the camp office. Well there was room, I talked to the camp and got a motel room on site. Then at dinner, Joes wife chewed me out saying they didnt want parents at camp blah blah and blah. I ignored it. Then after dinner I got pulled out of an assembly by Joe and one other youth leader. They said that they didnt want me pulling the boys out of camp that Jennifer had told Joes wife certain things. I explained Roys condition, as they were never told. I even explained the child abuse.
After a long talk, telling them the truth it all seemed okay and we went back to the group. Joe pulled the pastor out and left. During the worship service Joe, the pastor, the wife and youth leader pulled me out. They had spoken to the camp and claimed that I said I was their guardian-I said family member and that I had asked if the boys could be in the cabin with me. And because of that I had to leave or they would call the sheriff.
I couldnt even really say bye to the boys, and I know they have been hurting. I am DAMN MAD! Jennifer knew I was going up there, I called her on Wednesday and she was happy about it. I cant complain to her, and then I risk losing the boys.
I cant continue to be a part of the church; the boys dont even want to be anymore and that was before this. They want to attend services next week at another church we started attending last Saturday. Roy wont stand up to them and tell them how much he is hurting, as that is a huge problem with him right now. I guess he did not want to go at all. I should have tried to leave with him last night.
I wont know how he is doing for another five hours. I will be waiting for them at the church. Let the bastards call the sheriff. I am not going to rock the boat too much with the family; the boys know that I am waiting for school to start back up. However in the middle of all this yesterday the landlord threatened to change my locks because I have not paid rent, I wont pay rent until some things get fixed. I do not want to fight anymore, I just want to move. I will move closer to the boys, and then it will also help with the family.
I need to make a doc appointment; I have been starting to have the beginning of suicidal thoughts. I havent been able to get on meds because of insurance, been off for six months. Thought I would do fine, but I am not. The only reason I dont seriously consider it is because of the boys. I will post more when I calm down, only had three hours sleep last night.
After a long talk, telling them the truth it all seemed okay and we went back to the group. Joe pulled the pastor out and left. During the worship service Joe, the pastor, the wife and youth leader pulled me out. They had spoken to the camp and claimed that I said I was their guardian-I said family member and that I had asked if the boys could be in the cabin with me. And because of that I had to leave or they would call the sheriff.
I couldnt even really say bye to the boys, and I know they have been hurting. I am DAMN MAD! Jennifer knew I was going up there, I called her on Wednesday and she was happy about it. I cant complain to her, and then I risk losing the boys.
I cant continue to be a part of the church; the boys dont even want to be anymore and that was before this. They want to attend services next week at another church we started attending last Saturday. Roy wont stand up to them and tell them how much he is hurting, as that is a huge problem with him right now. I guess he did not want to go at all. I should have tried to leave with him last night.
I wont know how he is doing for another five hours. I will be waiting for them at the church. Let the bastards call the sheriff. I am not going to rock the boat too much with the family; the boys know that I am waiting for school to start back up. However in the middle of all this yesterday the landlord threatened to change my locks because I have not paid rent, I wont pay rent until some things get fixed. I do not want to fight anymore, I just want to move. I will move closer to the boys, and then it will also help with the family.
I need to make a doc appointment; I have been starting to have the beginning of suicidal thoughts. I havent been able to get on meds because of insurance, been off for six months. Thought I would do fine, but I am not. The only reason I dont seriously consider it is because of the boys. I will post more when I calm down, only had three hours sleep last night.
DJfromColorado
I will be picking the boys up in the NEXT TWO HOURS!! If the church wants to fight me on that I will call the police. Looking forward to hearing from the boys as soon as they get into cell range.:}
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