Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I have been in an abusive relationship for 2 years and some months. First it was emotional abuse from like three months into the relationship. I know, "red flag". Then after a year the verbal abuse started and after two months, hell just broke loose. The physical abuse has been going on for a year. I have had two black eyes and one of them ended up poping the veins inside my eye, one time he screamed so loud in my ear that blood came out, he has made me crash my car, he chokes me to the point where I have scratches and his finger prints on my neck, he almost broke my arm, the list can go on but I would rather not think about it. It has been an on and off relationship because he will convince me to go back. I have been wanting to leave him for good for about a year and I always say I don't want to go back but I always end up going back. I always swore I would walk away the moment a man put his hand on me, but I didn't. My mom was abused by my dad for 11 years before she kicked him out and I respect her with all my heart but I don't want to end up like that.
that this has been
your experience.
Please know that an
abuser who chokes
is an abuser perfectly
capable of killing you.
If you're in the U.S.
and most other
countries, there's a
women's resource
center available to
help you.
If you don't feel able
to find yours, private
message me and I'll
try to get you that
information.
Contact the center
TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And it's been hell getting back and out of these things. I just want you to know that you aren't alone.
It corrodes at everything we are.
It is hard to get away and stay away, sometimes the person that hurts us can become almost an addictive force while it corrodes at your self worth and even the feeling of existence. The world is a beautiful place and no matter what, you don't deserve what he's doing. He is responsible for what his actions are.
Please message h.e.a.l over what they said because they are right, someone who is physically harming you (choking) is fully capable of killing.
And please feel free to message me. There is help and hope.
The world is a beautiful place outside of that.