I've been with my bf for a year and some months now. I'm 19 and he's 30. He has a daughter. His mom never seemed to like me from the start. As months passed by I felt more and more uncomfortable living there with him and his family. She always complained how I don't do anything and never talked to me and acted like I'm not good enough for her son. I keep to myself by staying in my room and not bothering anyone yet I'm always getting talked about by her till this day. His daughter loved me from the start but I never met her mom. Before I moved in he told me that she's been living with him for years now and sometimes she sleeps with him because their daughter wants both her parents. I wanted to break up with him after he kept those things from me and the fact that he was still married and had a child. He told his ex that I was ok with them sleeping together that I'm mature. What woman will let her man sleep with his ex let alone allow them to live together. Not only that but they were still having sex even though they were supposed to separated. She was the one that talked to me first and we become good friends. We agreed that it was wrong of him to not introduce us since his daughter is always around me. I even asked her a bunch of questions and she told me how he lied about my age and that I was ok with them sleeping together. I knew nothing about what they were doing and he moved me in the day she moved out. Now she doesn't talk to me at all her and her daughter are in another state and it's like she doesn't want me to have a relationship with her anymore. She talks about me to my bfs mom about how she doesn't want his mom feeling uncomfortable by me moving back in. I was in another state for 3 months all because he wanted us to get better by spending time apart and while I had no job and was struggling to even buy myself food he was here with his family all happy. His brother and his gf don't help out with anything and his mom doesn't work. So basically they're living with him for free. He didn't even send me money when I needed it half the time he was too busy being jealous. One day when he came to visit me he told me when he picked up his daughter from ny that her mom was there because she was going to spend the weekend in his apartment because he wants his daughter to be with both her parents. I didn't even see our apartment at the time yet and his ex saw it first. She ended up staying for two and a half weeks. Till this day I don't know if they had sex or what. I can't even ask her because she doesn't want to speak to me. I have no job at the moment and no money so I can't even save up to get myself together. I'm stuck here until then. Everyday I'm unhappy and I just want to get an apartment and be on my own with any negativity around me. I'm leaving next month to go see my family for a few months and I feel like he's going to bring his ex here while I'm away.