Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Tomorrow I have court.
My old friend has concocted a charge, which seems innocuous enough, but my lawyer assures me is still massively serious.
As in, I could be looking at a life sentence serious.
And even if I did manage to come by parole, it's life on the sex offender list for me.
I'm going to have to face her and her hateful jerk of a boyfriend as they sit there and lie through their teeth about me. And then the restraining order goes into effect-which I have been abiding by, and they have not - and then I get to sit and pray that each day is not the last day of freedom. Thatthis might be the phone call or knock on the door that leads me to jail for the rest of my life.
I'm praying for a miracle.
But my heart is sore wounded within me, and I long to rest.
I'm fighting off the darker urges tonight.
And guess who has been more than helpful as I tremble? My wife even volunteered the use of the emails she plunged from me in order to clear my name.
Of God wants me to go to jail, I'll go. But I'm afraid. Very.
My old friend has concocted a charge, which seems innocuous enough, but my lawyer assures me is still massively serious.
As in, I could be looking at a life sentence serious.
And even if I did manage to come by parole, it's life on the sex offender list for me.
I'm going to have to face her and her hateful jerk of a boyfriend as they sit there and lie through their teeth about me. And then the restraining order goes into effect-which I have been abiding by, and they have not - and then I get to sit and pray that each day is not the last day of freedom. Thatthis might be the phone call or knock on the door that leads me to jail for the rest of my life.
I'm praying for a miracle.
But my heart is sore wounded within me, and I long to rest.
I'm fighting off the darker urges tonight.
And guess who has been more than helpful as I tremble? My wife even volunteered the use of the emails she plunged from me in order to clear my name.
Of God wants me to go to jail, I'll go. But I'm afraid. Very.
I can't imagine what this must feel like; all I can do is share what little I know about trying to live through trauma.
Try to find SOMETHING good about your current situation. Anything. Even if it's just that you are still physically healthy, or that your children are healthy, or that your children aren't being threatened with jail...or the possibility that maybe, just maybe, you won't go to jail. Try to focus your mind on those things.
Try not to torture yourself with thoughts of things that have not happened yet and might not happen at all.
Take it one hour at a time, one minute at a time if you have to. Try to remember that your children need you.
Good luck.
Stay true to yourself and I encourage prayer to whatever being you believe in....
Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
This book has numerous chapters on fighting false accusations. I HIGHLY suggest you read it. I could not relate as a female to these chapters but apparently female Narcs/BPD use accusations of Sexual Abuse. STAY STRONG. Pray.
Like the others have said, there has to be really strong evidence in cases like these. Hopefully, if there is a narcissist among the two accusers, there should likely be HUGE gaping holes in their story which will not make it past a judge's scrutiny.
We are all with you here xx
The truth has to come out.
We absolutely are with you and thinking of you.
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