Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I have been keeping myself up denial river, for so long, it feels good to finally come free with all the stuff I been keeping locked up inside me.
I know I have been emotionally/physically abused by this man for a long time, I tried with my every being to make it work, and I tried to hang on to him with my whole heart, and I tried to make him happy with everything that I do. I tried everything, change appearance, change schedule, make sure all was according to his standard.
To no avail, I am still here, I am without him, he is staying at his mommy's, and she is encouraging his mj use, and I am working on moving on. I have gone to no contact and at times it worked, but then we would end up calling each other, me call him, or him call me.
it ends the same, at first I thought it was the drinking that caused the fights between us, and then I thought maybe we need a break, every relationship needs a break, then I thought maybe its because he didn't have a job, that he was being so frustrated with everything.
It was excuse after excuse for me why he is the way he is. I still yet am in contact with him, but it is slowly becoming me not answering his calls, me not calling him.
I been keeping busy with my children, and my family, and my community. It feels great when he calls to tell him, im sorry I have to do this thing first, and by the time i am available, he is sleep or busy himself. So its contact to once or twice a week.
Just sharing. luv n ((hugs))
I know I have been emotionally/physically abused by this man for a long time, I tried with my every being to make it work, and I tried to hang on to him with my whole heart, and I tried to make him happy with everything that I do. I tried everything, change appearance, change schedule, make sure all was according to his standard.
To no avail, I am still here, I am without him, he is staying at his mommy's, and she is encouraging his mj use, and I am working on moving on. I have gone to no contact and at times it worked, but then we would end up calling each other, me call him, or him call me.
it ends the same, at first I thought it was the drinking that caused the fights between us, and then I thought maybe we need a break, every relationship needs a break, then I thought maybe its because he didn't have a job, that he was being so frustrated with everything.
It was excuse after excuse for me why he is the way he is. I still yet am in contact with him, but it is slowly becoming me not answering his calls, me not calling him.
I been keeping busy with my children, and my family, and my community. It feels great when he calls to tell him, im sorry I have to do this thing first, and by the time i am available, he is sleep or busy himself. So its contact to once or twice a week.
Just sharing. luv n ((hugs))
One step at a time - as long as you are moving forward, as long as you are making progress, you are doing great.