My sons came home from college just for a few days and now they both have gone back to school.They can't stay here because of their Dad!!!!He comes in drunk and mean to them,and they can't take it!I'm glad they shouldn't.BUT I'm so angry at him because I have always thought it was me, he directed his anger at, I knew sometimes they got it too.But I thought I was intervening before he would get bad with them!Hell, now that their grown he is treating them like me!!! and they don't even live here so me and my daughter can't spend time with them because of him! I am so furious right now.I thought I was saving them from his crazy drunken rages cause he has always used every once of his rage at me.Guess not,he has plenty to go around!!!!He thinks he can do this because of his entitlement to do so because we are his! and he pays or bills so he can let use all know how indebted we are to him and how powerful he is and how weak we are!I'm glad the boys wont take it and I'm so furious that he thinks he has a right to do to my children what he has done and said to me,Hell no he does not, because I know what those words do to the soul of a person.My boys are doing so well in school and are trying so hard to make a success of theirselves.But I know from experience that when someone that's suppose to love you belittles you and curses you, you wind up feeling like a failure.Sorry I just had to get this out!!!