How do you find closure with no contact?
It is getting closer to the August 2 target date for leaving my husband and I am wondering how do you find closure if you leave while they are at work and you move to another state? I am getting a lot of anxiety now as it gets closer. I feel guilty about the way I plan to leave, although, I know it is best. It seems cowardly and deceitful but I know I am too weak to do it face to face and have to deal with his crying and begging and hear how much he loves me. For those of you already on the otherside, how do you find closure if you maintain no contact?
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