Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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Okay trying to be brief in the subject line. As most of you know I have helped raise two teen age boys. My journal of the 15th goes into detail. Well something happened at church camp and I have now been labeled a sexual preditor by the church and family. Yet no one is talking to me or telling me what is going EXCEPT that the mother said that the step father has told me not to contact the boys or see them. Mainly on the cell phones I had been paying for.
PROBLEM
Roy the oldest started the phone stuff because the first time he mother went through this crap he used his emergencey phone that still had money on it from a trip we took to text me. He is VERY SMART and cunning. He has pledged his loyalty to me.
Aaron is a mole and feeds information, right or wrong, to whoever will give him the most attention at the time, good or bad.
Roy has been calling me and we have a whole system worked out. He has been telling me what is going on. He needs me, I am his anchor.
Aaron needs me, sometimes. He first called last night, the fight began last Thursday, man has it been a week already? Anyway we talked a couple of minutes and then Roy called on his phone and I told Aaron to call me back, which he did this morning.
How can they do this? Roy was at home last night, his room is pretty far away from his mom and step dad's room and they were sound asleep. No problem, done this before and he knows what to listen for if they are moving about the house.
Aaron was not at home, at grandmothers, my aunt and used her cell phone. Doors are thin, it is a mobile home, I have lived there and she does not sleep with the door closed, nor a heavy sleeper. This morning he called when no one was home.
My issue, Roy I am okay with. I can trust him. But Aaron may slip up and let his mom know he has talked to me. But he really misses me and was in tears. His birthday was Monday. Some of this is his fault and my other cousin ,T, and I are not even sure if he wasn't bribed to being part of what happened at camp. He has been telling his mom things about me according to Roy, and denies it with me. He has no clue I have spoken to Roy.
DO I CALL the mother and tell her that Aaron called me? We kept it short, I told him we weren't suppose to be talking. Or do I just let things be??
PROBLEM
Roy the oldest started the phone stuff because the first time he mother went through this crap he used his emergencey phone that still had money on it from a trip we took to text me. He is VERY SMART and cunning. He has pledged his loyalty to me.
Aaron is a mole and feeds information, right or wrong, to whoever will give him the most attention at the time, good or bad.
Roy has been calling me and we have a whole system worked out. He has been telling me what is going on. He needs me, I am his anchor.
Aaron needs me, sometimes. He first called last night, the fight began last Thursday, man has it been a week already? Anyway we talked a couple of minutes and then Roy called on his phone and I told Aaron to call me back, which he did this morning.
How can they do this? Roy was at home last night, his room is pretty far away from his mom and step dad's room and they were sound asleep. No problem, done this before and he knows what to listen for if they are moving about the house.
Aaron was not at home, at grandmothers, my aunt and used her cell phone. Doors are thin, it is a mobile home, I have lived there and she does not sleep with the door closed, nor a heavy sleeper. This morning he called when no one was home.
My issue, Roy I am okay with. I can trust him. But Aaron may slip up and let his mom know he has talked to me. But he really misses me and was in tears. His birthday was Monday. Some of this is his fault and my other cousin ,T, and I are not even sure if he wasn't bribed to being part of what happened at camp. He has been telling his mom things about me according to Roy, and denies it with me. He has no clue I have spoken to Roy.
DO I CALL the mother and tell her that Aaron called me? We kept it short, I told him we weren't suppose to be talking. Or do I just let things be??
Yes, I think that you should call their Mother and tell her that you have been talking with both boys, asap.