Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I ended up taking a loan for my abusive charmer..God I hate him..Now I am in debt paying from my hard earned money whereas he is in Singapore and have taken a female colleague with him, having awesome time (he has uploaded some pictures say about 200 of him and her)...
His salary is 5 times mine but isn't even trying to pay me back...(he only once said that I will pay back the debt once I have money and I said that I don't want anything from him anymore).
We have not been in contact at all for about 35-40 days..I don't wana contact him back for the money as I know he will just say that I will pay monthly installment or will pay once I have..I dont want any kind of contact with him anymore..
But I feel sad that why didn't he just put the money in my account as he has all the details with him..How could he be so selfish when he is earning so much more then I am..When he can afford to enjoy in Singapore with a girl why can't he just pay back his debt??
I hate lying to my family and I am thinking of telling them this..I will pay back the loan but I want my family to know..
Am I making any sense to anyone??
His salary is 5 times mine but isn't even trying to pay me back...(he only once said that I will pay back the debt once I have money and I said that I don't want anything from him anymore).
We have not been in contact at all for about 35-40 days..I don't wana contact him back for the money as I know he will just say that I will pay monthly installment or will pay once I have..I dont want any kind of contact with him anymore..
But I feel sad that why didn't he just put the money in my account as he has all the details with him..How could he be so selfish when he is earning so much more then I am..When he can afford to enjoy in Singapore with a girl why can't he just pay back his debt??
I hate lying to my family and I am thinking of telling them this..I will pay back the loan but I want my family to know..
Am I making any sense to anyone??
Hugs to you!
Thanks Tamehau..I just hope this is not another trick of his and this time atleast he keeps his words..I really need to clear all this so that I can start afresh...
Have you heard of Dave Ramsey? He offers some good financial advice, although it is tinged with religion at times. You may be able to temporarily take on an extra job to pay it off quicker ...
Seriously, this is too much..He had no right to be sarcastic after what he made me go through...
We will keep our fingers crossed for you.
You are right Joely..I will just stay away from all the emotional crap he is trying to throw at me...
The only way to get the toxicity out of your mind, body, and spirit is to cleanse and BLOCK anymore from trying to get in. Not easy, I understand that. If we feel sad for them - I have those times as well - we must do it from a distance.
Kitty you're so right, if they're being nice, get ready for a body slam.
I have to stop visiting his blog too Calm..Other then that I am keeping no contact with him..But you are right if I wana get out of this toxic relation I gotta STAY AWAY FROM ANYTHING RELATED TO HIM...Thanks for reminding me...