Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My Ex was Controlling and Faultfinding, he was also Conceited and
Flirtatious.....................................................................
I was consumed by my Ex, as these are
Terrible things to have to Interact with for over a year.................
I am trying to......................................................................
guard my heart, as I know it is important to guard my heart above all
else. Thank you all for your encouragement.........................
my heart that was a million pieces on the floor will one day be a
heart of gold, maybe I will transform to a better person surviving my
Ex...........................................hopefully. Love, Mil.
Flirtatious.....................................................................
I was consumed by my Ex, as these are
Terrible things to have to Interact with for over a year.................
I am trying to......................................................................
guard my heart, as I know it is important to guard my heart above all
else. Thank you all for your encouragement.........................
my heart that was a million pieces on the floor will one day be a
heart of gold, maybe I will transform to a better person surviving my
Ex...........................................hopefully. Love, Mil.
These are the characteristics of a Narcissist:
Highly unrealistic
Imposed by a sadistic and hateful primary object (Mother)
Grandiose fantasies
Constant failure (Grandiosity gap) leading to dysphorias (sadness)
Perceived to be odd, illusions, self delusions, lack of judgment
Fantastic life stories (Contingent Narratives)
Addicted to Narcissistic Supply: Admiration, Adoration, Approval, Attention
Primary and Secondary Narcissistic Supply Sources (PNSS, SBSS)
Narcissistic Cycle and Mini Cycle
Gradually evolves into Paranoid
Pathological Liars
Sadistic, likely to use verbal and psychological abuse
Do you think your ex is a narcissits?
a narcissist, of the worst kind, he even referred to other people
as "the masses." I know, I know, that's a very real reason my heart
is and has been broken into a million pieces. Now that I read that
list, I do also think that my Ex was a liar.
Your Ex does sound like a narcissist, but now you are free of him thank goodness. You hang in there. There will be happier days for you.
HUGS