Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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AndreaBEE 05/02/2014

I am so irritated and aggravated today that I still let him have the power to get into my head. The reproductions of things that happened, that I allowed (financially) and let him abuse and take advantage of me still amaze me. It was all about his power and control. I am not feeling very happy today.

Just needed to rant today. Thanks.

kris7167 05/02/2014

It happens to all of us, Andrea. They do so much damage, it takes a long time to work through all the pain and anger. You are doing a good job, you are not letting it destroy you. You are living your life. One day at a time. Hugs.

IleneW 05/02/2014

So sorry you're feeling
those things.

Please practice
SELF-CARE.

Sending you hugs
and healing wishes.

ltwist 05/02/2014

Aw Andrea...these kind of days really suck.

Hang in there. Take that adorable pup for a walk in the park, treat yourself to a scrumptious dinner, take a bubble bath...do whatever you need to do to feel good about you and your freedom from that jerk.

Big hugs!

ElenaNJ 05/02/2014

hi andreabee...maybe he doesn't have the power over you to get into your head.. but you still have to get it out of your system. when you are done wrong...it is hard not to keep rehashing it in your mind. don't be hard on yourself.

good rant..but i think you need to say more mean things about him, ha.

AndreaBEE 05/02/2014

At least he is just in my head and not in my house or in my bank account such as it is. I did a fun craft project and it made my mood a bit better.

ElenaNJ 05/03/2014

that's really cool..i hope you're feeling better today. what did you make?..only if you feel like answering.

i kow what you mean tho about your post, bcz last night, even in the mddle of the night, his face and lttle things, i kept thinking about...not that i want to go back..but it annoys me that my brain wastes time on him.

AndreaBEE 05/03/2014

Elana, I made a mermaid out of clay. I call it mermaid therapy. I make them for all my friends. It is mind consuming and creative and takes a lot of time.

leah3580 05/04/2014

Hi guys,
Elena, I agree- I get so aggravated to catch myself thinking about things that concern him, I can honestly say I do not do it as often as I used to.
Time helps.. patience helps too. :)
Hugs

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