He told me that he acts the way he does not only because of how he grew up but because of the people he has met. He says everyone he has met has been fake and everyone has hurt him somehow. But what about what he has done?! He uses the things other people have done as an excuse for all the bad things he has done. His excuse for cheating on me was because I lied to him in the beginning. Thats not an excuse to me! But I can't ever defend myself to him because he always finds a way to override me. He has an explaination for EVERYTHING! But his excuses are always ok, but if I was to use that excuse I would be a stupid lying hoe or something. i dont get it
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