Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I just need prayer to get through the day. Support. If you read my last post you will know why I am having a very hard time. I really feel insecure about myself and wondering why I deserve the treatment I have been getting for the past 5yrs. Between the manipulation,name calling,belittling ,threats, anger, silent treatment. Everything a typical abuser does minus the hitting. He did push me before though to where i fell to the ground. Never had someone push me that hard. I also have a question when an abuser says they love you what do they mean? Because love doesent hurt love protects. U also have to think they dont love themselves so how will they love anyone else. My mom says its sick love. I just need to get over this and you guys might be hearing from me alot because this is my way of venting without feeling like I am being judged. Thanks for listening and your support. I really appreciate it. : )
Of course, obviously, you know in your bones that you don't "deserve" the abuse you got.
No one does!
We are all, each of us ---- and that means YOU -----
ENTITLED
to a life of respect, peace, satisfaction and love.
Abusers can't love. They don't have the resources.
Abusers were either mentally ill or emotionally injured early in their lives.
If this weren't the case, then they would be healthy and healthy people don't abuse, don't hurt others.
So ---- abusers don't love.
When they claim to ---- they may actually think that that's what they're doing, but we know that's not true because in between telling us how much they love us, they're hurting us.
So ---- even if they believe they're loving us, that's not what's happening.
Love is a verb.
Love nurtures.
Love nourishes.
Love enriches.
Love giggles.
Love lavishes.
Love delights.
Love uplifts.
Love expands.
Love validates.
Love affirms.
Love makes new life.
Love makes life better.
So if what's happening to you is none of these things
then it's not love.
You're ENTITLED to live abuse-free and
you're ENTITLED to love.
We dont live together. THANK GOD!
((hugs))
regardless, i'm here if you ever need to talk.i'll pray for you.
much love
Hayley