Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My abusive ex called me a couple of weeks ago and we hadnt talked in a couple of weeks cause I was tired of his bs. I thought twice about answering the phone but I did anyway. He told me that he loved me and appreciated me for everything I have done for him. He said he dosent mean to be an asshole to me but that just the only way he knows how to deal. Anyway he basically told me he has a lot on his plate right now. Then he says that he is ready to kill him self and everyone around him. He sounded so depressed which scared the hell out me because you see men do that all the time on the news. Kill them selves and the woman or worse the children. I have never heard him talk like this. Ive heard him say alot of things but never anything like this. He just kept saying that nothing is going right for him and he cant find a job and he is just ready to give up on everything. Just really depressed. He sounded so sad. This is just crazy to me!!!
Have you contacted the police about this? You need to try to stop him before he does anything to hurt you or your kids.. He may need to go to a mental hospital..he could be bipolar!
Tom B. aka Ihman
to the behavior pattern that generally
results from statements such as the
ones you've cited.
Those kinds of statements are indicators
of serious dysfunction. Sometimes there
are physical consequences, sometimes not.
Ultimately, the criteria for institutionalization
is simply the possibility that someone might
be: a danger to self or others.
Make sure you're protected!
I am sorry your are going through this but don't forget you are not responsible for his safety only your own.