Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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joybells 12/25/2007

I told my husband that I was going to leave him if he didn't get help for his porn addiction and he has agreed to get help so I have put my plans to leave him on hold and give him a chance to prove to me he'll get help.If he doesn't do that then I will leave him.I made that clear to him.

deleted_user 12/25/2007

Well, good for you. Remember that it won't be easy to break and addiction. My husband is not addicted to anything but he IS King of Denial. Raising a child with him has been extremely difficult.
Therapy may take awhile. My husband has been going faithfully for awhile now,can't remember how long. Sometimes,I feel hopeless then I see a little glimmer of progress.:)
Good luck to you both.

deleted_user 12/25/2007

It wont be easy, but you have stand the storm so far. live up to your desesion. don't give a inch. do it.

MyMiniMonk 12/25/2007

I hope he sticks with it, and that all of this can be put behind you now. My husband is addicted to porn, and everytime he says he'll get help, he doesn't. He just says what he has to say to 'smooth things over', and then he's right back at it. Mine is the master of all manipulators. (did I spell that right???)
Wishing you BOTH the best!

deleted_user 12/26/2007

if he doesnt go through with it then leave him i am my hubby he is good about making promises and poor on keeping them i am the one who should change well i am to new apartment new life without him

joybells 12/26/2007

I want to thank everybody for all your help and advice.If he doesn't follow through,I will leave him.I made that very clear to him.

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