Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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I have decided I am going to focus on the good things going on right now. My classes started for Digital Forensics (very excited about these classes), I get to work towards a Cyber Security Forensics Analyst certification which will open a lot of doors for me. I also have a job interview today for a full time position with benefits that are awesome. Things have been peaceful in the house, my bf did drink the other night but he waited till i was in bed which i am grateful for. My current job is ok with me leaving work for this job interview today, my current job is an internship so unpaid in cash but good for experience.
There are so many things for me to focus on that are good. So I am just going to throw myself into work and school and raising my son. An occupied mind is much better than one dwelling on the bad things that are going on. Till i can do something about it.
There are so many things for me to focus on that are good. So I am just going to throw myself into work and school and raising my son. An occupied mind is much better than one dwelling on the bad things that are going on. Till i can do something about it.
on this day is healthy
self-care.
Sending you warm thoughts
and positive wishes for all
your wonderful efforts and
activities ---- and also for
your son.
This guy doesn't seem trustworthy to me.That's all I really wanted to say.
. If that makes sense.
applaud much of what
sidi expressed in
reply #2.
And then you wrote:
I am just trying to subdue my fear because it consumes me in every way
I need to say something about fear.
In evolutionary terms, fear was
the very first emotion. Why?
It was the first emotion because
those animals that developed a
fear response were more likely
to SURVIVE than those animals
that didn't.
Fear evolved in our emotional
system as a SURVIVAL MECHANISM.
If you noticed, when I wrote
my response earlier, I qualified
what I said about your focusing
on positives, with a limiting
time span. . . "on this day."
There are days we need a
break from what's oppressing
us and a day focusing on
just positives can be a
necessary respite.
However, I urge you in the
strongest terms to NOT
totally subdue your fear.
Your fear is a biological
mechanism whose purpose
is to keep you ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By all means, focus on
positive things. But don't
ignore the negatives.
Doing so may put you
at risk.
Please take good care.