Couple of months ago..I posted about staying married with an abusive situation.
I'm finally moving to shelter.
It seemed very clear last night and I decided I'm separating completely.
I probably definitely am.
Him being cool about it and still loves me misses me...makes me confused
anyways
repeated physical assaults
strangulation (more for intimidation)
anger issues difficulty communication

Its not possible for me to open up or be around him right now
I'm going to a shelter and for a separation of atleast 1 month or 6 months...lets see what happens
maybe i'm in denial maybe i'm confused don't know
i moved out for now...have to go back to get some clothes etc
its heartbreaking sad and numbing

would definitely appreciate help advice support and lack of judgement over why one chooses to stay or didn't leave and such
Its really not helpful ...its helpful to saybut not be angry if one does not 'hear'.
Guess I am able to hear a few things now
and I'm listening
Just don't want angry responses and I told you sos
just a request
thanks
kinda vulnerable and confused right now
have some immigration-related issues too...
personal messages on what to expect at shelters etc and the road ahead also welcome