Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
My Ex was very controlling and very faultfinding, every day he would find lots and lots of faults with me. My Ex was also very conceited and
very flirtatious. My Ex constantly told me that I had to compete with
other women, be engaging with him, and dress competetively with
other women, this went on for a year, a month, and 10 days, until
he told me goodbye and I told him goodbye and goodriddance.
It's been a couple of months since I've seen or talked to him, I guess it will take some time to totally get over all of the damage and wreckage
he brought into my life. Who should have to live that way????
life is not an olympic championship.
very flirtatious. My Ex constantly told me that I had to compete with
other women, be engaging with him, and dress competetively with
other women, this went on for a year, a month, and 10 days, until
he told me goodbye and I told him goodbye and goodriddance.
It's been a couple of months since I've seen or talked to him, I guess it will take some time to totally get over all of the damage and wreckage
he brought into my life. Who should have to live that way????
life is not an olympic championship.
It sucks, but it's going to take time and personal work to heal from all the havoc he wreaked. And by getting rid of him and keeping up the no contact, you will find that it will get a little easier each day. If you aren't in therapy, I highly recommend it w/someone who is experienced in areas of PTSD & abuse.
Hugs to you!!!