I got punched in the face that is why my lip is busted.

I realize this is easier said than done, but the best things you can do is call the police, because he just committed a crime. Pack up and leave or have him do it. Get a restraining order on your husband. Change the locks. There is nowhere for this to go but to spiral downward. You don't deserve to get hit. "Sorry I was drunk" is not an excuse. He'll probably act very sorry and promise never to do it again. Then for awhile he'll be extra nice until he hits you again, this time with greater force. This is how the pattern works. Even if he didn't hit you, getting so drunk that he might is not acceptable. I'll pray for you. Find out about resources for battered women in your community.

PS: No means no. If he had his way with you that is rape in all 50 states.

I totally agree with
what Gladdmatt
wrote.

If this is the first time
he attacked you physically,
I'll put my next year's salary
up on the probability that
it won't be the last.

And next time, it won't be
when he's drunk and denied
sex. Next time he'll be
"sober" and it'll be because
he doesn't like the side dish
you made for dinner. And it
won't be a busted lip. It'll be
a broken nose. It'll be a
dislocated jaw. It'll be a
ruptured ear drum. It'll
be a concussion that
bruises your brain.

Abuse
ALWAYS GETS WORSE.

Please don't put your
life at risk.

Make contact with
your nearest women's
center and get the
help they have waiting
for you there.

Sending you hugs
and wishes for
safety and better
days ahead.

Thanks to you'll for your support.