Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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for a few weeks/months, not really keeping track of time. I have been working on me, cleaning my home, taking my kids places, with/out my man. spending money on things I need, or the kids. Spending time with family/friends doing activities in the community. Working on my finances and getting them in order. Just a little bit of the different things that it takes to run a household of 3, and also my older daughter, is having a baby, so helping her out where I can.
I been having a problem with intimacy in my relationship with my man. He hasn't initiated/wanted/needed any in a while, I am saying weeks. It's driving me crazy. I tried talking to him about it and he goes around the subject. I am suspecting another woman, and have voiced this too. He denies it all the way around. Other than that things for me are improving, we haven't really argued, only because I stay quiet about most things, and am spending more time with my children, and making more time for other activities and family doings. He hugs me, cuddles, kisses me, compliments me, etc., but that's it, I want more, and just about ready to cheat. ugh!!! I know that is not the way to go, but I feel so unwanted in my own bed. I sometimes wonder if the age process is taking over, I don't want to sound like I am making excuses. But he is a major pot head, and has been since he was a young child. So I am wondering if this is the case, why he doesn't want to talk about it.
I am pretty comfortable being open about this subject and not beating around the bush (with him anyways), he seems like he don't want to approach it and is very uncomfortable with it. My question is why be embarrassed about it when we see each other in our bday suits anyway. Why cant we talk about it openly and comfortably with one another?
he is going to be 42 this weekend, is that too young to start having troubles in this area?
Sorry people, I just wondering what is the norm for men? I am already going through menopause? and wondering is he? lol
just wondering
I been having a problem with intimacy in my relationship with my man. He hasn't initiated/wanted/needed any in a while, I am saying weeks. It's driving me crazy. I tried talking to him about it and he goes around the subject. I am suspecting another woman, and have voiced this too. He denies it all the way around. Other than that things for me are improving, we haven't really argued, only because I stay quiet about most things, and am spending more time with my children, and making more time for other activities and family doings. He hugs me, cuddles, kisses me, compliments me, etc., but that's it, I want more, and just about ready to cheat. ugh!!! I know that is not the way to go, but I feel so unwanted in my own bed. I sometimes wonder if the age process is taking over, I don't want to sound like I am making excuses. But he is a major pot head, and has been since he was a young child. So I am wondering if this is the case, why he doesn't want to talk about it.
I am pretty comfortable being open about this subject and not beating around the bush (with him anyways), he seems like he don't want to approach it and is very uncomfortable with it. My question is why be embarrassed about it when we see each other in our bday suits anyway. Why cant we talk about it openly and comfortably with one another?
he is going to be 42 this weekend, is that too young to start having troubles in this area?
Sorry people, I just wondering what is the norm for men? I am already going through menopause? and wondering is he? lol
just wondering
I think men are individual and aren't all the same. Maybe not talking about it is a good thing. Try not to make waves, you want this guy no matter what, so just try and keep the peace. There is no point in fighting about anything. Please just keep him happy so you will be safe.
I wish you lots of happiness plus you get that job!!!!
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I hope I did good. I tried answering the questions as best I could, a couple of them I froze and my mind went blank for a second, couldn't think of the definition terms. It was so frustrating, because I was so nervous.
I started thinking of all the right words after my interview. I am so frustrated. I hope I get the job.
I freeze too and I HATE that. I've done that forever. It started when a teacher would call on me at school. I just froze. Now, I'm sure they would help a kid. Not so in the old days!!!
I really hope you get the job too, baby!!!!
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on the more positive note, I still am employed, and my man got hired today.
I think that is terrific your man got a job. I hope he keeps it for a long time and helps you out. You really deserve it.
Take care, baby,
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its a seasonal job, but I am badgering him to look for more full time employment, I am using some tough love. He want s to stay with me then he has to want to improve himself or hit the road. I am being careful and am putting money aside for an emergency and still have my emergency plan in place here at my work place.
I am careful not to let him know about it, and quiet about my safety plan.
If I don't get this job I am going to keep looking. I need a more stable financial situation, so I can keep my truck and my credit.
And provide for my kids needs.