Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I am new here, but I just need someone to talk to and to vent to. I am 29 years o of, have two beautiful babies and have been married for 7 years....my husband,well, he's not ghe nicest guy. He is a spoiled brat pretty much is how he was raised. He is controlling and mean and hurtful. Our 3 year old basically doesn't like him. He is a fraud of him because all he does is yell. Especially at me. He cusses at me constantly, blames me for everything, throws things when angry and just recently grabbed the back of my neck while angry in front of our son! He is emotionally, verbally, and now getting into physical abuse and tries to play it off like I'm being dramatic. I am a stay at home mom and just need someone to talk to.
Please keep your mental, emotional, physical state in check before it changes the wonderful person you are inside. Your husband saying "you're too dramatic" or "you're too sensitive" is just brushing off the pain he just inflicted on you. No one deserves to go through that physical and emotional abuse. Please remember that there are loved ones who truly know who Katie is, and she is not what her husband says.
Neither your husband or mine is going to change EVER! Please consider your children and keeping them from being abused.
The only way you can do that is to leave him. You may think that you can't, but I promise you that once you do, you will feel so much better. I am sure that there are people on this site who can give support and resources.
I am sorry that you are going thru this.
This can be a very dangerous situation for you and for your children. Please make sure you are safe and protect your children from seeing or experiencing abuse.
Emotional, verbal abuse is escalating into physical abuse and it will not get better.
I don't want to sound negative but abusers don't change. They need help and they would need to want to get help and make an effort to change.
I have been in an abusuve marriage for years and finally I was able to have a strength and courage to leave because I realized that I deserve respect and love.
Please take care of yourself and I hope you will be able to receive support so you can protect yourself and your children.
You are not alone and you are strong!
Take Care! Hugs