Good for you. I hope he will honor your request, but I would expect not, that would be giving up control. It's one of those things you will probably just have to let go....he will, sooner or later, come to his own conclusions about your relationship.

Changing your number is a good idea. No contact is a good idea. Yep, good steps in the direction of reclaiming your life....

Hugs...

I wouldn't hold my breath. Now he knows it bothers you, he will keep them there. Do you have his password? You may have to highjack the account and remove them yourself.

Hey Congrats if it works, but I don't think he will do it.

if he truly respects u n cares he'l do it but if he's a bastard hel keep them there but u shouldn't bite ur head ova that, just don give him th satisfaction

He removed the pics and the video..Smsed me that I am sorry..It just didn't strike me..Have a happy present and future...

He paid the loan..removed the pics and the video...Why??Why is he suddenly being so nice to me??

I haven't talked to hime like since 60 days...Then why???

Pls help..I am going crazy here...

He is being nice because that is part of the crazymaking process. You mentioned it yourself, that he is making you crazy, that is the whole point.
My ex does the exact same thing to me. Sugar wouldn't melt in his mouth right now after horrible things he said to me in person and through emails. His emails were so severely abusive, I got him registered through a domestic violence agency as an offender based on his emails alone. But right now, he wants my info for the divorce so he is being very sweet and kind.
Nope.
Not falling for it.
And please, neither should you.

I got an e-mail reply to mine where I have asked to remove my pics and video...He has abused me and called me what not..Said that I should never contact him again if I don't show any respect(as I hadn't written the mail as Dear X..Rather the mail was one liner..Just to the point...)..I am crying..Crying for the pain he has caused me..Crying for the love I gave for seven years and got abused in return...

He says that I never loved him in seven years..and that he is the one who loved me...Why don't I just die as it will make things easier for him....

Feeling real low...

I would do exactly what he asks. Do not contact him again.
He lured you in, and stomped on you again. Please do not allow him to continue to ABUSE you.
The longer you go without contact, the stronger you become and the closer you get to NORMAL loving people, the sooner you will realize how twisted and wrong he really is.
I am so sorry for your pain. Your pain is very real. It hurts. I know. I have been there. But you can grieve, as you are doing now, and move past it, I promise you, life is better than this.

Awwww, I hate that!!! I am so sorry isha!!! What a screwed up bastard. Sorry to say, how typical!!!
"Nice" is always the calm before the smack. What a stupid, disgusting pig to say the least!!! Grrrrrrr
Mine said in emails that he doubted if I EVER loved him. Yes, that hurt, all of the damn attention and extreme focus he REQUIRED as a narcissist, and he had the nerve to say that. BUT consider the source honey! He's EVIL, VILE CREATURE, and evil does this. Ignoring his ASS will send a clear message..."I don't give a shit what you think, buddy!"
~~Lots of hugs~~

Thanks Rachel for your support..Made me feel so much better...

Thanks Calm for understanding what I feel right now...I felt so sad reading what he wrote about me...But that's has made me only stronger and proved beyond doubt that the decision to run away from him to remain sane was soooo RIGHT...

Now since he has paid the loan and removed my pics..I will never ever contact him for anything...I don't want to be abused anymore..I have had my share of abuse rather more then that for a lifetime...

Thanks everyone at DS..You all are really my strength...