Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I just heard the song Are you f*cking kidding me...
It was like what I felt exactly when my ex sent a friend's request on Orkut..He said- I know you don't want to contact me but I hope that you will accept it once you get over the anger...
I even remember him telling me once that we had such happy six years together..
I mean what is happy to Narcs..
when i was crying every night and begging him to take out some time to resolve the issues in our relation..
Or was it when I was begging him to not hit me with a chair...
Or was it when he called me names and called back again to tell me that I deserved it
Or was it when infront of a crowd he abused me, made me cry and never thought he was wrong..
Or no wait I think the exact definition of happiness was this..When another woman infront of me put her hands on his upper leg and had the guts to ask me - wht am I getting so upset abt?
WHAT IS HAPPINESS FOR HIM?WHAT??
Are they plainly disillusional??or my PAIN=OUR HAPPINESS for him...
It was like what I felt exactly when my ex sent a friend's request on Orkut..He said- I know you don't want to contact me but I hope that you will accept it once you get over the anger...
I even remember him telling me once that we had such happy six years together..
I mean what is happy to Narcs..
when i was crying every night and begging him to take out some time to resolve the issues in our relation..
Or was it when I was begging him to not hit me with a chair...
Or was it when he called me names and called back again to tell me that I deserved it
Or was it when infront of a crowd he abused me, made me cry and never thought he was wrong..
Or no wait I think the exact definition of happiness was this..When another woman infront of me put her hands on his upper leg and had the guts to ask me - wht am I getting so upset abt?
WHAT IS HAPPINESS FOR HIM?WHAT??
Are they plainly disillusional??or my PAIN=OUR HAPPINESS for him...
Mine said we have so many memories together. Hard to give up someone who he has shared so much with. Then got the papers and was like "cool". Okay you need to liken this idiot to a pole! The only thing you get from it is a chill when its cold and a burn when its hot. Sweetheart you are not dealing with a man. You are dealing with a non caring pole! You are worth so much more than this. Try to concentrate on the wonderful person you and instead of the blankety, blank, blank, blank that he is.
Hugs n luv!
Hugs everyone it is a new morning, at least where I live it is
You also reminded me of the 40th birthday party I killed myself organising and paying for him....and he had a woman from work hanging off his neck for part of the evening...and when I told him that upset me...He says what IS your problem???.....Looking back..yes doing that brought him happiness alright..especially when he discovered it upset me...
Lol...tame..I love the pole analogy....Cold or burning!! very good...
Mine said I made him miserable every minute of our marriage..so he had to try to extract that bit of pain out of me also..
You've worked it out....So have I...
YES....happiness to them...is your pain..and its ALL about control....Your pain is proof of their control over you..To them...
An abusive Narcissist...Goes against all definitions of humanity...
Empathy, remorse, morality, are things they chillingly despise and enjoy NOT showing...and having.
Its about the sickest most demoralising soul destroying and crazymaking experience..To have had to have love for one....
Yours likely likes to say it was happy...So as to confuse your reality further?....Or maybe hes just telling himself more lies...Something else narcs are expert at....?
That song was great....Yeh..ALL their version of what they are and what really happened..and how they really behaved..is always denied and unacknowledged.....Too right....Are you f**king kidding me??????
At least we know what really went down....The REAL truth....and will never be like them.....Thank God!!
Hugs all!
What emotions? The only emotion they have is anger.
Everything else is an act, an imitation of other humans' emotions in pursuit of getting their narcissistic supply (life's blood).
i think to myself what was happy about it..ever
the times you did all those things .the times honey periods in which i i knew it was only a little while until you hurt me again..
may be it is happy to them.you think?
Tame, as usual..Thanks a tonnn for your support...You are an awesome person..
You are right Bep.."Good times with someone who can't love you..just will not happen"..
Yeah Vonnie we have figured them out...Just regret so much time got sheer wasted in getting to know them head to toe...But still thankful that we did...
Good going Sinn...WHO CARES ABOUT THEM ANYMORE?
Not Human..That was soooo correct Calm..I also believe tht..
Emmm...For them seeing themselves in control of other person's emotions is happiness..Not giving them what they need ever is happiness...THEY ARE SICK...
Yes Wvart..They are SICK...
Lbeth..I think they go to some common school for training..SCHOOL OF LEARNING AND TRAINING TO BE PERFECT NARCS...May they meet there match in that school itself..It will save many normal affectionate ppl from getting hurt...