Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I think my ex boyfriend is emotionally abusive.. he is constantly making me feel bad and cry. He even shows up to my job or school unannounced.. He has always had anger issues but they just started to reoccur & he has been letting them out on me.. last time he kicked me over and over again.. and spit on me.. is this abusive?? I think it is but im not sure..I'm just unsure how to feel his actions and words became more angry and aggressive 6-7 months into out relationship, during the very end :(
get out get out get out now.......its not love, it will only get worse.
You called him your "ex."
Is he doing this NOW?
Are you still in contact
with him?
In your profile, you say
you are in school.
(You've listed your age as
in your 20's. Are you in
college?)
If you're in college, there's
a counseling department
that's included in the tuition
you pay.
If you're not in a place
with a counseling department,
go to the nearest women's
center. They have counseling
there.
Frankly, Sweetie ----- I'm
alarmed at what you've
written. If you're still in
contact with him, you're
in danger and appear
to have no sense of how
serious this is.
Please don't delay.
Even if you're not still
in contact with him,
you need to be working
with a counselor who
can help you recognize
abuse before you're
hurt by him or in
another relationship.
Sending hugs
and wishes for
safety and healing.
What concerns me, is that you are so confused about it that you're asking strangers. Ya know?
I might have said get out and get your head clear, but it's been 6 months, and you're still uncertain. That means that you should go get some counseling. Last thing you need is to misread the next guy and get into another bad relationship.
Really...congratulate yourself. You got out! And you're on the right track. Just a bit of help and I think you'll have a very bright future ahead...so go get the help now. YOU are worth it!
Heartfelt hugs, Patti