Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Ive been so stressed with work I'm angry, exhausted and all of the above. When I get angry the first thing i wanna do is text the stupid ex and just go off!
Is it that I'm still so hurt and angry with him that i wanna vent on him and give him a piece of my mind? Why cant I stop thinking of him and get over it??
This SUCKS!!
Is it that I'm still so hurt and angry with him that i wanna vent on him and give him a piece of my mind? Why cant I stop thinking of him and get over it??
This SUCKS!!
It's best that u don't make contact, instead like u have already done just vent as much as u need to here and get it off your chest!
Like if I was him, what would u say to me right now?
Just get it all out!
I'm gonna start a thread for us all to say what we really wanna say to them!
After leaving, it is like someone takes off our blinders and suddenly we see how badly we were mistreated and it makes you angry!!! You want to rage against them, to make them see and feel the evil that they have done... But they will never see it! No matter how much you yell, scream or rage back at them, they will only turn it around on you and make themselves out to be the victim while you are the crazy b*tch!!
Do whatever you have to do to let it out!!! I chose a day when I knew my neighbors were not home and screamed my head off like a lunatic... And you know what? I felt sooo much better after that! Write a letter and burn it, call a friend, go for a run, beat the crap out of a pillow while imagining his face... And when you are in a place when you can do none of those things, imagine letting it go...
Ultimately, the best revenge is getting on with your life and making yourself happy. Nothing kills an abuser more than to know that your life did not end without them in it.
I've started it off, maybe if u read mine you'll know how u feel and find what u wanna say, if not then you'll figure out soon and will be ready for having a massive vent ! Xxxxxxxx