Ok...so now that I have had 2 big talks with my husband and told him that I want a divorce he continues to be here in this house with me and our daughter. I gave in the other day because he was acting a fool and saying \"we need to sit down and have a talk with our daughter right now.\" And I was telling him that I just wanted peace and did not want all the drama. Today he wanted to get a movie with our daughter and I found a list that he wrote. He is taking vacation days and it has all the things that he wants to take care of around the house and it says do things with my family and save my marriage. We own a house together. I WANT OUT! I have a good job and could afford this house without him, he could not. I dont want to live here anymore though. I want out of here and all strings cut rather than my daughter. I want no connection with him money wise or anything. He was off of my bank account in Sept. but I let him back on and let him in the house and let him abuse me again. Now that he knows that I am done he is trying to say \"I am trying\" and he will not leave my side. And when he brings up getting out of the house he has to make a big scene and act like I am kicking him out and I am the bad guy. Since it is summer time I want to get an appartment while my daughter is out of school. Can I do this while I owe for house and should I just try to sell it or foreclose? I feel so stuck! This house is what is holding me back and all the strings attached. He is throwning everything up in my face and now I feel like I have given him too much information and he is using that against me because he is going to be all nice and say \"I am trying.\" I am tired of this cycle and just want out! I dont know where to turn because my parents bailed him out of jail the fist time that he abused me....help? I did not want to get stuck with house, but I want my freedom and my anxiety to go away and he is not listening to me.