Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Hello all,
It has been a while since I posted on here. Some of you may remember me talking about my boyfriend and wondering if I was in an abusive relationship and such and talking about my therapist. Well, I broke up with him this past Friday. He is completely moved out of my house. We aren't talking. After I broke up with him and he moved some stuff out I was actually feeling really remorseful and started trying really hard to reconcile things between us. Then on Monday I found out he was already talking to another woman. He used to get so mad at me for texting him while he was working and I saw his phone records and they were talking non stop, from morning until night, while he was at work. That was a huge wake up call for me. I def deserve better. For those who were questioning my therapist, she actually encouraged me about a month ago to leave him, because our relationship was not healthy for either of us and I deserved better. It was hard for me to think about at the time, but almost a week out from the breakup, I know I do and I'm excited about the future and taking at least 7 months for myself to continue therapy and heal myself and my heart.
Hope all is well with you all out there.
It has been a while since I posted on here. Some of you may remember me talking about my boyfriend and wondering if I was in an abusive relationship and such and talking about my therapist. Well, I broke up with him this past Friday. He is completely moved out of my house. We aren't talking. After I broke up with him and he moved some stuff out I was actually feeling really remorseful and started trying really hard to reconcile things between us. Then on Monday I found out he was already talking to another woman. He used to get so mad at me for texting him while he was working and I saw his phone records and they were talking non stop, from morning until night, while he was at work. That was a huge wake up call for me. I def deserve better. For those who were questioning my therapist, she actually encouraged me about a month ago to leave him, because our relationship was not healthy for either of us and I deserved better. It was hard for me to think about at the time, but almost a week out from the breakup, I know I do and I'm excited about the future and taking at least 7 months for myself to continue therapy and heal myself and my heart.
Hope all is well with you all out there.
having the courage
to make the break!
Sounds like you're on
a path to a happier
place.
Keep doing the work
and practice every kind
of SELF-CARE.
Also, seven months is
a good start. When those
seven months are over,
keep doing the things
that worked for you,
during that period of
time.
Last of all, if you ever
find yourself needing
to remember what
life with this loser
was like, try doing
my Clarifying Index
Card exercise.
Staying clear
post-break-up
is one of the many
times it's good to
clearly recall what
the relationship
was really like.
Sending hugs
and wishes for
continued clarity
and healing.