Interesting question, Is he your current husband, l couldnt work it out from the question, or have you married again?

Move ! So he cannot find you and that will give you peace of mind.

You have two years to plan it, do it!!

can't u talk to ur husband about this and maybe move together then?? i don't think u being scared of ur ex is reason enough to ruin ur whole life now ....don't u think he ruined it enough ?and also u might have developed borderline personality cuz u have so many ups and down or bipolar maybe ...check it , ull feel better to know if that is the case and maybe get some counseling but dont give up

""""""""""""""""before he gets out I will leave my husband and move away so that he wont kill the people in my life. Is that giving up?""""""""""""""


From what I get from your profile, you're going to finally
go NO CONTACT from an extremely dangerous marriage.

This is NOT giving up. It's reclaiming your life.

Good for you!

Sending you prayers for all good things in the future.

Take good care.

All I can say is protecting yourself, family, and friends is def not giving up. You gotta take precautions to take care of yourself and your loved ones. I would start with a divorce and relocating and changing all my contact info so he didn't have a way to contact me. I would call your local domestic violence shelter or the domestic violence national hotline, they have great remarkable people who can teach you everything you gotta know....stay strong *hugs*