Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Why is any talk about liking to be submissive considered abnormal? I find this upsetting. I feel like something is missing because I can't find a way to explore this side of myself.
This may seem strange to most people, but I feel more in control when I'm being submissive. It hurts that people would think this means there's something wrong with me.
This may seem strange to most people, but I feel more in control when I'm being submissive. It hurts that people would think this means there's something wrong with me.
has many sides.
Most of those sides
are neither solely
positive nor negative
---- unless taken to
an extreme.
In a relationship,
there's a time for
both partners to be
assertive and a time
for both partners to
be accommodating
and a time for both
partners to be dominant
and a time for both
partners to be vulnerable.
These times depend on
each individual and the
interaction of two individuals.
I don't see anything
wrong with a person
being submissive.
The circumstance in
which I see being
submissive as a
problem is when
one partner is
always dictatorial
and the other
partner is
alwlays submissive.
I'm appalled by and
opposed to one
person in a relationship
being abused by the other.
I believe in balance. . .
in the balance within
an individual psyche
and balance
within a relationship.
That's my perspective.