Well, I'm glad he's been charged. Hopefully that might scare him into keeping away.

I am so sorry about that text...what a selfish man he is :( Even if it is from a different number, log the event like all the others before you block that number too. It's pretty obvious who it's from since he uses the word 'wife'.

So sorry. Good for you not replying. Let him stew in his own juice.

Big hugs xx

Need, please, PLEASE don't reply. Step away from the phone. Take a hot bubble bath, play solitaire on the computer, do your nails, watch bad (or good) tv. Do something for you.

Don't let him occupy your precious mind....he is really not worthy.

Stay safe and alert. Good on your for filing charges.

needa- I am glad you got the restraining order... I was looking back at your other posts and saw that you had written about him not understanding that he had done something wrong.....and using statements such as "why do you send me away when I am crying?"
I feel the same way about my husband.... all his whining and quivering lip and saying "you are torturing me." It seems that no amount of hurt for them is acceptable despite the fact that they hurt us for years...
Please hold on to the strength that you have at any moment and no that you have support here. I
Sending you support and strength!!!!

I'm SO glad you haven't replied and that he has been charged with harassment. Like Rockin, I'm hoping it may give him a wake up call.

What a cruel thing to send. I'm also really sorry he sent such a horrible text.

Good for you for not responding and for reporting his harassment. Keep that text in your phone as proof that he is still contacting you. (((((((Hugs)))))))

Thank you all. I am going to try my hardest this time

It is the best thing, imo, to get the police involved. It makes them stop and think a bit when someone in authority tells them to knock it off. He seems quite persistent, though, so be prepared for more onslaught, maybe from a different angle.

Good for you for
maintaining distance.
So glad he's been
charged!!!!!!!

Yes ----- hang on
to the text. Can you
print it out. It's good
to have a hard copy
of all attempted contacts.

Please take good care
of yourself.

Thats was an awful and cruel thing to say to you. Sending you strength to continue documenting his attempts and harassment. But also take time for yourself- you deserve it. You're a very good person.

Hugs,

He sent a message today to me via a work colleague. To tell me I'm destroying our marriage. Lol

That's typical. No, he destroyed it all on his own! The lack of responsibility taken is just staggering with these people.

Keep recording and saving his rubbish for the police xx

He destroyed the marriage a long time ago. What nerve he has!

Good for you, maintaining distance and making him accountable for harassing you. You're doing great!

I just may be time to change your number sweetie OR get a whole seperate phone for others to reach you on so you don't even ha vBulletin e to look at the phone he calls/texts on. Or just start blocking others as well. Its sad you have to deak with thids BUT STAY STRONG SWEETIE.

Good for you for pressing charges ! These abusers get away with their horrific behavior because everyone is scared to do anything about it. That was a very courageous thing for you to do. Change your phone number, and don't respond to anything he says...Stay safe. Take care of you.