So, so, sorry :(

Why on earth are they doing these awful things? From some of what you have posted before, their reactions always seem so disproportionate to anything that was actually going on - one of the major signs of a disordered personality. I cannot believe they are taking actions that will affect your life so far, when you did not even do anything wrong.

*speechless hugs*

Oh Bax!!!!! I am so sorry.

i'm being accused of rape

and no, i didn't do it

Is this girl in anyway connected to your wife? Revenge type thing? Sorry, I am relatively new hear.

Very sorry for what you are going through.

Oh Bax,
I am so very sorry you have to go through this. Shame on them!!!!

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

I am so very sorry for what your going through. Healing thoughts and hugs going out.

And i got to explain to my daughter that herpet rat was about to die. And all my dad to take it outside and put it out of it's misery. And I learned that my wife has been downloading my emails far longer than I suspected. As in, is still doing it. Also, hi, honey! She volunteered the information because it's going to be useful in the upcoming case, as I did a very thourough job of deleting emails.

Now I've got to be careful who I confide anything in yet again, this time because I don't want to possibly contaminate my witnesses. I hope you all don't mind. I'm going to be hitting this journal pretty hard, as the others are apparently going to be evidence.

This is going to work out for the best. I just have to survive and ensure to see it. My dads staying with me a few nights, to make sure I'm safe. He's also got my knives under sharp watch.

OMG, I literally cannot fully process what these people are putting you through! So mean and false and... unnecessary.

I do appreciate that at least one of them is (was?) a friend of yours, but it sounds like you are dealing with a very nasty case of attention-seeking selfishness. Of the ultimate variety.

Glad you have your dad with you for support. You also have all of us.

Sorry too about your daughter :( Not nice to have all these traumatic events one on top of another.

Thinking of you and hugs... keep checking in if it helps, as much as you need to.

I know that her boyfriend has been working on her since I last saw her. I visited his blog yesterday - nothing but post after post of how hard it is to put up with crazy people, how sometimes you just want to stab them, how stupid it is to acceede to the demands of someone who's clearly deranged.

I know my friend is very weak willed. And he is very strong willed. And he hates me - he's told me that outright. Which is amusing because one of the main reaons I told her I thought they would be a bad couple was simply because he would be able to convince her of anything.

It's nice to be right.

Oh, I see... so she is letting him direct her life? :/ What a situation...

Sounds a bit like my mother and father. He was in the driving seat, but she would not stick up for her kid and fell for his games so much, that I felt they might as well have been working together the whole time. In the end I could not tell one from the other, even though I think logically, he was the primary abuser.

His blog sounds absolutely nuts, and like HE should be the one locked up! He is projecting so much I think he must be a narcissist or sociopath (or both). It is hard to tell how much the lady is influenced by him, and how much of her behaviour she is the actual source for. I have had several narcs do a very convincing 'act' of friendship... right before they turned on me and ran me over with what felt like a freight train.

All I can say is so sorry again :( xx

Oh no, Bax I am so sorry you are going through this. And to top it off you have your wife who is proving who she really is by printing your emails behind your back and going to therapy with you to what???? Save face? Not fair!!!!

Glad your dad is staying with you. Stay strong, we are all here for you.

I would also recommend printing any blogs or information you can to help your case.