I've been off the grid for quite some time, car trouble,phone broke, a suspicious chain of events but nothing catastrophic to be honest. Unfortunately, my deadline came and went and I'm still here, still fighting. Finally told him two weeks ago that Iam unwilling to live like this any longer and we need time apart. Surprisingly he took it well, promising to move out within a week, alas it wasn't real...I know that comes as no surprise to anyone here. A lot more has transpired , but I'll write later.