Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I see so many of you on this group that are so young, in your 20,s and putting up with abuse.
If you have no ties to the abuser, no children, you have no commitment.
I am a survivor of tremendous abuse , and l say that easily now, knowing how difficult it is to see the situation you might be in, as l could not .
Dont put up with it, leave.
Trust me , when you are gone, and you have distance between you, you gain your strength and identity.
i SUGGEST A GOOD BOOK ' Feel the fear and do it anyway"
If you have no ties to the abuser, no children, you have no commitment.
I am a survivor of tremendous abuse , and l say that easily now, knowing how difficult it is to see the situation you might be in, as l could not .
Dont put up with it, leave.
Trust me , when you are gone, and you have distance between you, you gain your strength and identity.
i SUGGEST A GOOD BOOK ' Feel the fear and do it anyway"
"Men who hate Women and the Women who love them" author ..Susan Forward
and
"Love is a choice" The definitive book on letting go of unhealthy relationships:
If you dont have the strength to get out of unhealthy relationships, try reading these books, because you feel weak, lost, or dont know what to do. You might gain some strength from these.
Dont do what l did, stayed in a very abusive relationship for 16 years.
Ive lived extreme abuse.
I know now l was the strong one to put up with it, and he was the weak one, to use violence to try and keep me, which obviously was not going to work, for any one.