Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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babyrena 03/08/2013

ok here is where I am,
we are still together, and I am still yet not trusting him completely. I keep asking myself, "Why am I still hanging on?"
Last week I got home and must of snuck up on him, cuz he didn't have time to erase the pic he was looking at and I saw a women on his screen looking provacative, and posing for him. Idk if he was talking to her, or if he was just looking at pics. I didn't get an answer out of him. I cried and told him this:
"how could you keep on doing this to me? after everything I do for you? I have giving up my life for you! I let you use me just to make you happy! I give you money

radrm 03/08/2013

I am sorry you are still being treated that way by him. These things he is doing are very hurtful and damaging. He is pretty abusive too from what I remember right? I think your only way out when it comes down to is is out. I know we wish so hard they would love and care about us but they just never do. Never will. They only act like it when they want us back again after doing something terrible to us. Are you getting counseling yet? I am and I just started but I want things to change and I know it has to come within me. I want my own happiness. I am reading about CODA which is Codependents anonymous you might want to look that up. Ours are not alcoholics but they are abusers and it has the same affect on us from what I see. Hugs! I wish you a happy weekend.

gem111 03/08/2013

My heart hurts for you. The question isn't why you don't trust him completely, the question is why you trust him even one tiny bit.
I am so sorry you don't want someone who is good for you and good for your kids. It must be pure and simple you are just addicted to him and it doesn't matter how he treats you or what he does to you. You will always go back. You really break my heart that someone can't help you. I feel so bad for you and especially your kids who have no choice but to put up with all he dishes out to you.
Please do your best to stay safe.
(((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

deleted_user 03/09/2013

Hugs to you sweet Babyrena. I see you are fighting for him and giving him every opportunity - He just keeps showing you who he is.

Don't forget to be kind to yourself as well.

(((HUGS)))

Seawee

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