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babyrena
babyrena
my mom is a full blown alcoholic, and so is her mate, short of elder abuse, he ended up in ICU from dehydration, from drinking so much and not eating, or drinking water, and so they want to blame my mom, and so she is hurt, and sad, which made her drink more. And I haven't heard from her in a few days, and tried to call and check on her yesterday, no answer, and called today, no answer.
I am just venting here, everyone is worried, and i am at work, with no ride, I have my new truck but my SO is using it, cause we went shopping and I just hopped off at work.
So anyway, I am sitting here wondering what my role is in this relationship between me/mom. She was never there for me growing up and I still resent her for it, but I have been told forgivness is a great healer.
So i have been working on forgivness, but she is a mean woman and verbally abuses those around her. I am unsure what her mate goes through. But I am pretty sure he goes through it too.
I have been over to her house once or twice a month, but she is usually drinking and I can't stand being around her when she is drinking, it just annoys me to no end how she gets when she is drunk.
Thank you for letting me vent again. It's always something with me. It feels like I can't get a break, and I want to rest.
If it's not my family, it's my work, if it's not my kids, it's my man. I am really literally sick and tired. I want to take a few days vacation just me by myself to just be and not have to answer anyone. Know what I mean?
babyrena
babyrena
I have talked with my SO about it, and he is supportive of it, and in March sometime we are going to take a trip to another part of the state, and I hope I can get some rest then. I hope I can get some time off.
gem111
gem111
I am so sorry you are now going through this too. I really hope things get better for you soon and you get yourself some time off so you can go somewhere and get away for a little while.
Good luck.
Sending you lots of hugs!!!!
penntucky
penntucky
my parents were drunken crazies....or crazy drunks....or just plain hateful.

me even thinking about having a girlfriend----but was ok to get drunk.

my idiot drunken dad slept in their bed by himself; my evil drunken mom slept on the sofa.

if your mom was a total stranger, would you have anything to do with her?
penntucky
penntucky
typing too fast.

me even thinking about having a girlfriend was frowned upon---but it was ok to get drunk.
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