Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I am having a problem with my SO. We got into a fight tonight over a stupid remote control. He told me not to get excited when I asked him for the remote control which was on his side of the bed. I totally lost it cause he is ways telling me not to get excited over stuff like that. I kicked him out of bed a nd he got really mad and tried to poke my eyes out. He gave me a fat lip by pressing. Y lip into my upper teeth. I told him I was sorry for kicking him out of bed...in fact I cried while I was saying I was sorry to him. I don't want to leave him...but this can't keep happening!! Our last physical fight was about 2years ago. I don't want him to leave and I don't want to leave him either.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!
Remember that you never never deserve to be physically violated for any reason.
Don't make excuses for him.
He should not hurt you.
Sending my support.
I am so sorry you are going through this.
I think there is more going on than you have said.
It's hard to tell someone that for their happiness, peace of mind, and a life with someone who really cares about them to leave now.
It will only get worse and you will be wasting your life with this creep if this is the only time something has happened to you in 2 years.
I get that you don't want to leave, but, if what I believe is true, that there is so much more going on with you, for your safety and well being, you really need to think about leaving.
We have women here who have spent a lot of time living with an abusive husband, and I do not mean physical. An emotional abuser has sucked the life out of some of these women and some are hopefully in the process of getting out. It is extremely hard to get away from an abuser as they are a master at manipulation and WILL convince you that everything is all your fault.
We have some wonderful survivors that give awesome advice that have survived hell.
Unfortunately, abuse is something that gets worse with time, not better.
I am sending you tons of support and bunches of hugs!!