Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Anyone who has followed my posts know someone from church told my parents about what's been going on at home (I appreciate that she cares about me that much) and my dad grounded me from Facebook for 2 weeks. He said if I deleted any texts he'd add a week. Here it is 2 weeks and one day later and I asked him if I could get back on Facebook. His response was why would you want to do that? You've been doing so good... We'll talk about it next week. What happened?!!!??? What did I do wrong???? I didn't delete ANY of my texts. I don't find this fair at all!!!!!!
Have you started to look for a job so you can save up some money, break free and start living your life?
Continue to nurture yourself and stay focused on getting out. You need to retrain yourself to Not automatically blame yourself and wonder what You did wrong. You're not doing anything wrong. Your parents are. Please remember that and tell yourself that. That is The Truth.
Hugs,
I am not sure that the support you have been able to access has alwyas been helpful to you.
I think you are still hoping your parents wil give you that suppot and it doesnt look to me like they are going to do it. They are treating you like you don't have asperger's. Have they even been in therapy themselves to better understand you? My daughter has been in that kind of therapy with her partner since my asperger's granddaughter was 3.
I don't think your parents are doing the rights things by you. Maybe they think church will solve everything. You need specific, trustworthy guidance that honors your asperger;s syndrome. Your helpers need to help you find that.
Asperger's, has many pluses, along with minuses. I believe you can still find what you really need.
Hugs
NotMyself1: first I wanna say I'm sorry I haven't talked to you in awhile. I feel bad. You've been nothing but kind to me and I have not been talking to you. :( in regards to what you just posted really? I still don't want to accept that my parents are abusive. They did spend hours upon hours with me in the hospital and give me a home to stay in, food to eat, and clothes to wear. But other times it feels like that doesn't matter. Because of things like this. Having my grounding extended for another week even though I haven't done anything wrong. I did what my dad said when he grounded me. No Facebook, texts monitered, no deleting texts. Consequences were grounded 1 week longer from Facebook. :(
When you're able to be
out in the world on your
own, you will make your
own rules.
Sending you best thoughts
and wishes for a speedy
journey to be your own
young woman.