Pet Bereavement Support Group
The loss of a pet or animal to which one has become emotionally bonded can be an intense loss, comparable with the death of a loved one. Whilst there is strong evidence that animals can feel such loss for other animals, this community focuses on human feelings, when an animal is lost, dies or otherwise is departed.
My dog started biting people a little over a year ago and I finally had to make the choice to let him go this morning. I was so afraid for my family and our other dog. I took him to our vets and held him in my arms as they put him to sleep. He is free now and I am in such horrible pain. I wish i could go to sleep with him. My heart is so broken. I got Elvis right after my husband and then dog died and loved him with all my heart and now almost 5 yrs later I had to let him go so we could all be free. I hate what I had to do and will always have a huge whole. Has anyone had to deal with this? I was closer with Elvis then any dog I've ever had. Can anyone make some suggestions on how to get threw this. Thanks Lori
It might help to talk to other people who have lost a pet. Sharing it with friends who understood was really comforting for me. I found it helpful to read a book about grieving the loss of a pet. I also attended a pet grief support group. There are grief groups online I think that could be helpful to you. Journaling helped me as well. Writing about what happened and my feelings. You could look into some grief counseling if you feel you need it.
This site is dedicated to grieving the loss of a pet. They have a forum, chat, hot lines to call if you need to speak to someone:
http://rainbowsbridge.com/Grief_Support_Center/Grief_Support_Home.htm
Not everyone understands how difficult it can be to lose a pet. It's like losing a family member really. I'm so sorry you lost your beloved Elvis. Please know you are not alone. In time you will feel better and you will remember the good times you had with him and how much that meant to you.
Please take gentle care of yourself during this difficult time. Sending you (((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))
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