I had lost my 5 year old cocker spaniel 6 weeks ago due to cancer of the lypmnoids. Since I have no children of my own she was like a daughter to me. We did everything together. We also have a 2 year old lab mix. When our

lindsey died a huge part of us went with her. Our home that was once a happy, cheerlful place, always full of life and excitement went from all that to one Big HELL HOlE.

I cried for weeks on end, screaming, throwing things. I was uncontrolable. I was in such denile.

The worse part was seeing sox's our black lab so depressed, not eating, she was so lost without her sister. It crumbled my heart to peices.

Lindsey died on June 11th 2008 which was a Wed. by that Sunday we had adopted another cocker spaniel 10 weeks old at the time. we named her Summer. I thought at first it was WAY to soon but I knew it was the only way I would ever get my life back in some kind of order. In someways I feel it was my Lindsey that brought Summer to us to help heal the hole she left behind.

All I could say is follow your HEART. We know it will never replace the loss of your suzieormy Lindsey but we will create a NEW special bond.

I have no regrets and I know lindsey would of wanted this. I read a poem on RAINBOW BRIDGE that helped me to cope with her loss along with all the wonderful people I met here on DS.

I have pictures posted of Lindsey, Sox's and Summer our new addition if you would like to view.

My heart goes out for your loss sweetie.
Your in my Thoughts & Prayers. Good luck to you.If you ever need to talk you know where to find me.

(((((HUGS TO YOU MY DEAR FRIEND)))))

Lindsey's Mommy~~~~ Michelle :)

i had louis for 12 years...my mom surprised me with a new puppy (6 wk old pom poo) the day after louis died...for my birthday...i wasnt ready then...but sophie has grown on me now...louis is still number one but hes in puppy heaven...i would have waited longer...prolly a year or so,,,

My baby passed away on June 7th and I had his brother with me, I watched him become more like Giz than himself, doing strange things he never did before, not eating, very low energy and he was always full of hell, always up to and just so funny,he did things that Giz once did, limp for attention,instead of going in the pool he would do what Giz did, walk around the edge and stretch for a toy, before that just turn the water on he was there no matter how cold, we did meds, he just was going downhill and fast On July 4th we got Bailey a 2 Lb bundle of energy and today they are the best of friends, I did what I believed was best for keeg and it turned out to be good for all of us. I miss my Giz so badly and just ache for him but Bailey brings some joy and happiness into our lives and I have love to give the hole in my heart is and always will be there but I love my boys...and Giz will always be with me

My first dog, a white german shepard, passed away when I was in junior high school. My mother wouldn't let us have another dog after that because she was heartbroken.

When I got my first apartment I decided that I wanted a dog. Snowball is now 13 and not doing very well, I know that I'll have to make the decision to put him down sooner rather than later. Really not looking forward to it, but will do what's best for him.

I'm really not sure if I want to get another dog after Snowball. I love animals, especially dogs, but it's so hard to watch them when they're sick. And then I think about all of the unconditional love and happiness he's given me over the years, I can't imagine being without that. I cry just thinking about it.

My photo is of Snowball. He's a german shepard mix.

My dog Sunshine was killed by the vets May 29, 2008 which was a Thursday. That following week on Friday, I left town (Las Vegas)to Montana for a week, then returned home Friday the 13th. My heart was hurting so bad, I just thought that if I got another dog it would stop so the following day the 14th of June, I got a puppy from the shelter. So I guess it was two weeks. Now that I look back, I would've waited longer. Probably a few months actually. I had alot of anger inside me (still do) and was crying all the time. I wasn't there emotionally for this new pup in the beginning which sometimes affects them. Depending on your level of grief, I would wait a few months.

My Lei-Lei passed on November 15,2006 at 12yrs from renal failure of an unknown cause. Seven months later I responded to an on-line breeder of schipperkes ( like Leibchen ). They had two 12wk old girl pups. They were born on what should have been Lei-Lei's 13th birthday, March 12th. I was intrigued and went to look ( after an eight hr. drive) and came home with one. Was I ready for a new dog? No. Did I need a new dog? No. Has she helped with my sorrow? Yes. Is she a wonderful addition to our family? Yes. Will she ever replace Lei-Lei? NEVER! But, no one should ever expect an animal ( or anything or anyone else) to do so. Each one deserves love and respect and can never take the place of another. "Echo" is a real character and very charming. While I still think of Lei-Lei daily ( and shed at least one tear a day still ) Having Echo has helped me see the joy in life again and helps me smile . It's hard not to with her around.

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Not goodbye.....just until
Marmy always comes back for you
Leibchen March 12,1994 - November 15,2006

My pink angel, Pinky, a chihuahua died, Sunday, July 13th. We decided on Tuesday night the 15th to begin to look for a new puppy. The house was too empty. On wedneay the 16th we came home with not only one, but two babies. They wrestle and play. I didn't think I was ready, but my husband thought he was. I don't regret getting them, because they do make me laugh again. They keep each other company. I do however still have very bad days as well as my husband. New puppies don't take away the pain and will not have the same personality of your baby. If you decide to get a new puppy right away, be prepared for the little messes of learning to potty outside, chewing, and getting into everything. But also be prepared for happy puppy greetings, tail wags, and playful days that bring smiles. I have fallen in love with my girls and do not regret my decision.

This is so hard.
Its only been a month or so for me. Will be a while for sure. I also got divorced (my wife left me for someone else) and lost my house. I have a small apt which I am allowed to have a dog in, but still a crummy place to have a german shepherd (yes I have to have a GSD). In the next couple months maybe I can get a few things in order and start jpb hunting out of state (I live in SoCal and its expensive)) then I can rent a little house with a yard and get a dog again.
I dont know I am so lonely.

Thanx for you posts guys. It confirms that waiting is the thing to do. Still down the road will I love the next dog as much, honestly I loved OSO TOO MUCH.
The two dog idea is good especially as I am single now and when at work the dogs could play together. Gotta wait to move get a new job and a house with a yard for sure.
Funny, other people's dogs don't really pep me up either, just kinda make me more sad. MY friend stayed for a few days with his little dog and I didnt care at all.....if anything the little dog bugged me. I know thats bad but its how I felt

I had to have my lhasa Apso (Bertie) put to sleep after he broke his back in a fall down the stairs, he was 7 years old, I'd still give anything to have him back 3 years later.
I knew I NEEDED another dog but fate took a hand in my choice. I was looking for an aquarium when I saw a 12 week old black and white Cockerpoo puppy. He was to be mine he was born on the day I lost Bertie. His name is Wellington his photo is on my profile page. So I waited 12 weeks!

This is one of those situations that depends solely on you.

I am a pet lover, that believes that there is a soul, small or large, who will have a life because of you. I say go for it, find joy and give joy.

I put my very old, very sick puppy down at the end of July, and while some may think that it's too soon, I adopted another stray from a humane society about 3 hours from my house this past weekend. I believe that Lucky showed me this web page and that is how I found Kirby. His picture is posted on my profile and so far, he has proven to be very soothing to my soul. I will always love and miss my Lucky dog, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and there is a reason that Kirby is in my home now.

almost 2 months after her passing on did we get a new puppy,the house was way to quiet,we have no children.......so we needed and wanted another dog,but i have to be honest and say,I am just now getting used to her.But she is a good dog......you will know when the time is right.......