Personality Disorders Support Group

Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.

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lonelylady62 05/05/2013

Have any of you experienced your immediate (parents) letting you go based on your bad behaviors (atcing out, manipulating, SI, cutting, lying) ? If so, how did you deal with that,. Did you ever prove to your parents that you are trustworthy and someone they would want to have a relationship with again? How did you accomplish that?

deleted_user 05/06/2013

I'm not totally disowned but my father does not deal with me. I have become numb to this because I have a family and I have to survive. Part of me still loves my dad but I am also very bitter. My mother has passed away. My father was bitter at her passing because he thinks that she cheated on him.

I manipu8late, but I don't mean to. I am aging out of the borderline.

No to the third question.

But, I suppose that you could apologize and do a "When I feel because" statement with a note or something and try to reconcile. Reconciliation is possible for some people, and if youh heart wants to do that, that is truly wonderful.

I wish you good luck.

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lonelylady62 05/06/2013

Who told u that u are aging out of BPD? R U seeing a therapist?

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