Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
So I'm what you would call potluck; I have ADHD, BPD, ODD, Bipolar Disorder, Anorexia, and I am a compulsive liar. This is hard because I have been forced to get help from my friends but I am afraid that help would change me. I just need help with controlling myself and figuring out my emotions and also being able to participate in society without being ridiculed.
That aside
You don't want to change??? So why bother getting help
write a list of behaviours you want to control.
Then try journaling (keep it safe) every time you want to do such behaviours. Just write any thought that comes to you
The journaling should program your logic to be more in control of your emotional urges.
Buy a book on feelings ask yourself twenty times a day how your feeling
As for socialising, sit in the group, copy what everyone else is doing, remain silent, observe what others are doing, try to do what the others are doing
Don't rock the boat you should fit in and start learning
Skills