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I lost my therapeutic daddy

lonelylady62
lonelylady62
I was in psychodynamic therapy and my daddy kicked me out. He hates me, he does not care about me. He won't return my phone calls. He promised never to abandon me. I did not break any rules or limits or boundaries, nothing. he hates me. I love my daddy and he hates me.
lonelylady62
lonelylady62
I am devastated. I wrote him an email and he did not respond. I just want to die. At my age I will have a heart attack or stroke because of this. I have all the risk factors. Oh well nice knowing everyone.
sigmund2
sigmund2
anyone else to ask in the group?
there must be someone you can confide in. can you call his supervisor or was this a private thing?
lonelylady62
lonelylady62
He is in private practice and there is no one else. I am all alone like I have said before. This is the reason I am being severly bullyed at work and no one, not police, not chain of command managers, not MH crisis, no one will help. I am afraid he will kill me this weekend.
sigmund2
sigmund2
What are you saying? You are kidding?
What kind of job allows bullying? That is against the lawa and you could talk to .... HR about that or someone because harassing due to your condition is not allowed anywhere.
WHen you say you are afraid he will kill you this weekend...what do you mean?
sigmund2
sigmund2
As for work....this about boundries. You must set boundries for yourself and not get upset over what others say. Self drawn boundaries are important, like i will not justify rudeness with an answer. I will not accept negativity because i deserve better. can you request a transfer and srart anew?

I am just guessing but the therapist whom you call daddy stop seeing you bc he had to set a boundry? You call him daddy but really he isnt and therapists are trained to keep some distance betweeen themselves and patients.
deleted_user
deleted_user
suffocation strategy always works best haha
lonelylady62
lonelylady62
I have reported my bully to the officials, they told him to stop. He is still working there but avoiding me like the plague. We will see I have told him to stop for a year. onward and upward.
sigmund2
sigmund2
THat is fantastic that he is avoiding you. They laid into him. They can be sued for allowing this. Now....just don't make them have to talk to more people because then they will perhaps look for a reason to not keep you on. I say this not to give you knots in your stomach but it sounds like a possiblity. Make sure you take care of you because now, they might have to keep you there, because if they let you go you could sue and say that they were playing favorites. I am not a lawyer but I have asked a lawyer about a similar situation. Harrassment is serious in the workplace.