Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
be very very very careful with guys you go for. i have bpd so i was like aaaah nobody loves me so i went looking for the wrong guys who made it worse.
i just wanted to tell all of you to stay far away from any guy who makes you feel inadequate in anyway, whether it be your weight, your hair, your personality, anyway whatsoever, get away as soon as possible and don't go looking for another guy to make you feel adequate again. i am finally getting over all of that and realizing that those guys can't make me feel bad anymore.
my ex was awful and now he is verbally and probably physically abusing his new girlfriend and i am really worried about her and i just want to tell anyone who is in that kind of a relationship to get out!
i'm so much happier now so don't get stuck with bad guys who bring you down. i know it can be scary to be alone, but it;s better to wait for the good guys.
just thought you all should know and be careful!
hugs
i just wanted to tell all of you to stay far away from any guy who makes you feel inadequate in anyway, whether it be your weight, your hair, your personality, anyway whatsoever, get away as soon as possible and don't go looking for another guy to make you feel adequate again. i am finally getting over all of that and realizing that those guys can't make me feel bad anymore.
my ex was awful and now he is verbally and probably physically abusing his new girlfriend and i am really worried about her and i just want to tell anyone who is in that kind of a relationship to get out!
i'm so much happier now so don't get stuck with bad guys who bring you down. i know it can be scary to be alone, but it;s better to wait for the good guys.
just thought you all should know and be careful!
hugs
I love you but I treat you like you don't matter at all half the time. Right. If I tried to talk to him about the contradicton, I'd get hung up on or ignored for days or weeks. I'm finally getting it through my head, this guy isn't worth my time at all. He doesn't and never will really love me. He can't, or wont. And I don't need that shit. I'm trying to stay sober and recover form alcoholism and 20 years of depression.
Plus need to work on my recent diagnosis of BPD, which explained alot to me as to why I was the way I was in relationships. Selflove is what I need to work on. Telling myself I am worthy of love and I didn't deserve to be abused and it's not my fault if he wont love me.
but we were still talking and now he is abusing his new girlfriend and telling me about it like it makes him cool. he always calls her a fat cow and tells her how stupid she is and how he hates her hair and he says she looks like a clown. it's awful. i feel so bad for her.
you need to make sure that you are going to be safe first and strong enough to handle things such as the emotions that go along with it.