People from the UK Community Group
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Oh my days I feel so stupid, I let a friend into my life that I haven't seen for years, well since school we had a catch up, told him my issues etc but and a few days he turned on me and said he was going to tell everybody about me, How could I be so stupid as to trust him. And now I am being told it's my fault. How do I even try and step out the door without feeling like everybody is watching,staring and laughing at me, how could I be so stupid
He probably won't follow through if he has an ounce of sense about him - he will make himself look far worse than he can make you. People will wonder if he does go ahead and say things about you, what he might be saying about them too behind their backs. He can only lose in this.
Gossip is not welcome by most people worthy of knowing and so an old - but true - phrase comes to mind:
"Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter."
Hold your head high and don't let fear get in the way.