Today is my husbands Birthday. My children decorated the playroom with hand made everything. It looked so cute! A few days ago my husband told us he did not want to celebrate his B-Day and of course we did not know why. He says it is because growing up his birthday was not celebrated he never even got a card from his parents. His sister text him a picture today of his niece and it said "happy birthday uncle, to bad you were not here to celebrate with us". Every time they text him I can see it hurts him. I text back Do I know You? Who are you trying to text? She writes "If it is not your birthday you must not know me, FLE( husband's nickname) must have gotten a new number. After I told him what I had done he huged me and said "Thank you". I feel so bad for the loss he has had to endure, it must cause him pain. But He has done the responsible thing and broke all contact with any one who does not believe his girls. My oldest daughter's counclor suggested a two hour session for her. She thinks that two hours will give her the time she needs to talk. The great thing is she is only charging us for one, she is using the other hour of which she used for paperwork. I really hope this works for her because we drive 5 hours total to go see her councelor.