The family...THE family that abused my kids for years...the oldest 2 are now adults & live locally, though we never see them.  The younger two are still stuck in another country BUT they now have youtube, Instagram & Facebook accounts!  The main offending boy has continued to try to hide in plain site by changing his names & pictures, but I've still found him.  ;)  The girl is owning her title & has decided to share openly...well, sort of.  She's definately at a cross roads where you can tell she wants to tell what happened in her life...so we are constantly praying for her to be brave enough to do so!  What I share with you below are HER WORDS, her very 1st post ever that she just wrote only 1 month ago.  And she has shared that her cat died a few months ago as well.  (I think she's sneaking to do this because only her grandparents have commented/liked her stuff but none of her family at all, not even the brother mentioned above, & she posts at random times like 4 a.m.)  We just keep hoping that these 2 kids are going to publicly disclose because the pressure is too great since they've never really been helped & now they're teenagers still living in an abusive home & in isolation due to the pandemic!!!

Hear from a sexual abuse victim (by 3 brothers, father & mother & no therapy ever...as a matter of fact they recorded her a singing video & posted it on youtube the week of the police investigation before moving to the other country the next week!) turned child perpetrator:

"I know, it's gonna to be a lot to read, but I felt like it should be known.  So if you read all of this, wow. I'm impressed and good job.

People view others from a different perspective and aspect of life.  They greet, hug, shake hands, and ask "how are you." Most of the time, people would say "I'm great!" or "I'm good!"  But I tend to observe. Are they really?  I watch people from a distance as I stand in the corner of rooms.  I watch them laugh, smile, talk, their motions, & their personalities as they are there.  While I'm in the room, invisible, I tend to observe how people acted at church, & how they are at parties, and if they have the same personalities.  I can tell you, I see some people who are their real selves, it makes me comfortable; but I notice when some aren't too, and to be honest it makes me cringe.

People unintentionally ignore, don't notice and can't see through the hurting eyes of others and who others are the minute they turn around and Say Goodbye. Some people are too caught up trying to act like someone they aren't,  That they don't notice that they aren't alone.

With me personally, I look at people from a different point of view. When I see someone, I always think, what are they thinking right now? Are they being themselves?  and then I think about myself. Am I being myself? Usually that answer is no. I'm just a girl.  Not mature yet. But I'll tell you this. Children notice how their parents act at home and in public.  How their friends are, at sleepovers and at home. I observe how people are the minute they walk away.  Not just when they are talking or laughing. I noticed when they're smile fades. When they become themselves as they tried to hide it. I was reading Proverbs 14:13 the other day. It says "laughter may hide the sadness temporarily, but when the laughter is gone, the sadness remains."

That applies to so many people, including me. So many people fake, and for many reasons. Sometimes it's because they don't want to feel left out, they want to think they're okay, or they don't want to explain if anyone notices. I, myself, don't think about much other than how are my friends?  How am I?  And when will this end?

Those three questions lead to many rabbit trails and I get too caught up in them and I don't realize it's affecting my life. There are many different things people tend to struggle with: trust, failure, honesty, loyalty and respect.  I tend to fail at all of those.  But one thing I really fail at, is standing right back up and pretending it never happened. I always stay on the floor, waiting for someone to pick me up.  Waiting for someone to burden themselves with it so I don't have to.

Anyways, if you read this far, that means a hell of a lot to me, and ummm...good job!  :)  "

( I believe that her parents are two-faced and put on a facade when they're around other people, which I have experience with in the way that they dealt with what happened with my own family and theirs, that are abusive destroyers of their children when they are in the home, and I'm sure as you read this, you can see that that might be the case based upon their own child's words.  Poor little girl.)