My daughter' abuser, was her step dad, we have one son together. He was found not guilty by a jury and now is requesting short visitations with my son. He hasn't seen him in 2 years.
I haven't received a summons for court, I just happened to see my son's ad liem? In the store the other day and he said oh they have a court date. I was like what?!! I haven't even gotten a lawyer yet. In as hoping and praying he wasn' going to pursue any custody or visitation. My son is 4, he has no recollection of this man. And I am fighting to not run away.
As his mom works in the sherrifs office I know that the courts will be biased. I am so worried something will happen to my son. He was always mean and abusive to me and my kids, and had no patience with them.
I have no cards to play though. I have this amazing little boy, who is my everything, my daughter who is scarred from his abuse.and now I have to hand my son over to this man!
What am I going to do
I need support to get through this difficult time. I was asked to write a victim statement on how the abuse has affected my children and I. I can think of words to say aloud but when it comes to writing it down a draw a blank.how do describe the pain a person whom you’ve loved for so long in writing? Deep down i still love this person as we have grown up together, made a family together, talked...
I am feeling so many emotions about everything that happened to me. I have had so much anxiety about it and going back and forth of if I should press charges or not. He was my best friend and I have such a big heart for people but I will hate myself even more if he ever does this to anyone else. I mean he did not stick his penis inside me but he did penetrate me with his fingers when I said no...