Feeling a bit out of control emotionally...Quick run down, My 4 year old was sexually assaulted by my 15 year old nephew for about a year. He was convicted in August 2014. My whole family on my side is in this down playing game like it didn't happen. My family live on the same property as my parents at the moment (we are building a home to move) THANK GOD! They keep allowing my brother and his family over seriously every single day since trial, even though my brother believes this is what kids do, and during trial his **** of a wife kept making comments during trial l "that didn't happen!" I wanted to slap the **** when the perp admitted it to the psycho evaluator. The courts advised no contact between families would be best, not an order it was just advised. The therapist advised it would be best not to see them it is a trigger for my daughter.. I advised this to my parents right off, they respected this in court until the day he was sentenced then he was over that night. I don't understand. In the beginning I asked him not to be here for the best interest of your grandchildren, I was ignored

I made a second attempt and asked for a phone call when he is going to be here so I can be notified, I was then ignored again. He then started bringing his dog who runs the property who pounces on my door and advertises he is here like a flashing red light.. I swear I would of put a bullet in the dogs head if I didn't love the dog! But again they do nothing. He has showed up and thrown rocks at the kids with his truck, backup up and almost his my oldest daughter it is immaturity at its best. Due to the grandparent allowing him their I am not able to get a restraining order at this time.

We are then prisoners in our home for how ever long they are here! My daughter starts to think "he" is here, every time we have to explain "he" is in jail or it just reminds my older ones what has happen and it just pisses them off. Its a nightmare. To add to the story, My grandma died last week and this was the scenario:
My grandma (my mother's mom) was admitted to the hospital after 40 hours my mother calls me at 11:30 at night and states:
Your grandma is dying, I am going to put your phone to her ear so you can say good!! WTF I repeatedly asked what hospital she was at, she kept saying "there is nothing for you to do here, just say good bye" after multiple attempts I got the address.. Drove 2 hours to the hospital walked in, I could not look at my mother I was so hurt and mad. I was able to spend 15 minutes with my grand mother, love her, and say a prayer and goodbye. As I was driving home she died. I got a text message from my father "died 4:18:"

This was very weird for me, for years my grandmother has battled Alzheimer's while she had ups and downs and had bouts where she became mean. My mother over the years wished her dead. At one point stated she was "owed" inheritance money for what she has to put up with. I's sorry but I would not watch for one second that women shed a tear, she should no compassion or understanding for her illness I felt resentful.

My parents left the next day for 2 weeks (a vacation) giving my family a calming you would not believe, my home needed it. I needed it to grieve and the whole house at the point was spent.
They returned Sunday! This is were the nightmare began... It was like the minute they drove in the drive way a black cloud came over the house the prison wall closed in

Monday morning, I woke to my mother walking in my home and the war began. I was immediate attacked for wasting my time and driving down to my grandma to spend 15 minutes there (Her words) I didn't acknowledge her and do I realize how that looks. I was not there to see her, and I had nothing nice to say YES I said sorry, and left. She then proceeded to tell me she is done and forever done...All of this in front of her grandchildren and I asked her to leave multiple times and just stood there yelling... The icing.... She then turned around and said "With Everything else it's about time you "Get over it" This is my property I can have who I want here, I will not choose sides, the only reason the kids remember all of this is because of you LET IT GO! I then lost it... While in front of her grand daughter. I feel horrible for that but this is not something just "LET GO" or GET OVER!!! or the same people who told us "You can't call it rape if he is not charged with rape" Ummmm Asshats sexual assault and sodomy is rape!

I don't understand how these people my parents have no compassion for anything! We don't have daily discussion about what is happen, but my baby girl is 4 she thinks this was an accident and talks about it all the time. It hurts like hell!!! How dare anyone tell me to "GET OVER IT" this hurts so bad! To be treated like trash by my parents is horrible. The keep saying the perp did this not the father! Yes and NO, That whole family has done this, they have targeted my whole family and have done horrible things. The perps parents fought to have him NOT file as a sex offender. The were using our case to change the state law. YES that makes them part of the problem. Why don't they see we should have a right to be feel safe in our own home.. There is always going to be a case in the future with these parents, this is a juvenile am I over reacting? If they feel this is what kids do, do I have a right to feel my kids are unsafe around them? Every time I fight with her she makes me question my self I hate this. I just want this all to stop! Is it wrong to feel like when I move I never want to see these people again. I am so done, so tired of being hurt,I am so thankful my baby is little and not old enough to feel this pain. Thanks for letting me vent. I just could not hold it in....