Parents Whose children have been sexually abused Community Group
This group is for parents whose children have been sexually abused. We welcome both Mothers and Fathers. Here, we can offer support to one another. We can vent, cry and lift each other up. No condemning or criticizing allowed. We are here for support. We LOVE (((HUGS))) !
Today my husband, myself and our daughter went down to the police precinct and reported on Monster boy's siblings perpetrating on herself and our 4 year old. Our intake officer was like night and day from the first time we went. He was so respectful and gentle and kind, it was amazing. He also said that he had every intention of contacting the detective that is in charge of monster boy's case partly because he does not know the codes for all of the crimes that were committed because they are between children and partly because he believes it is that serious that it needs to be addressed right away with our Detective. I made it clear that I had attempted to contact our detective and that he had been the one that told us to go this direction. Well now that report is in and my daughter feels braver and was able to tell the police herself some very important things that had to do with monster family and that happened to her personally. Not sure where this will end up but we did our job!
On another note, she did say she would review the cases against big monster and monsteR because they were over 14 at the time of the incidents. SO, that's something! Also, she said we should file charge against the parents even if we suspect something and I'll tell you what...my 4 year old disclosed that he saw a movie with the PARENTS NAKED in it with the kids! We shall see!
The DA stated that it's hard to "prove criminal intent in a child under the age of 14." She did say she read and re-read through our case 3 times but couldn't find anything. She also stated that my daughter didn't disclose much in her forensic interview. I let her know she recently did in our most recent trip to the police.
We still get victim compensation for our whole family, yes, regardless of whether or not there is a legal trial.
As for healing...healing is the continuance of purging the disgusting truth and it has beenough disclosed that the WHOLE family perpetrated on my children! It's disgusting! So we now have to go file charges against the monster parents. :(