I hope someone reaches out. Mine was a step dad/grandfather perp. Just know you have my support and love no matter the particulars I absolutely get it. We've all suffered the worst type of betrayal, the worst kind of heart break, and found the best kind of support here.

It sucks and I'm sorry.

Yes, I agree with heartsadx3. The circumstances differ, but the emotions are almost identical. We welcome you to post your thoughts right here. Not only will you be able to release your emotions and seek help here, but you will be able to help others who post. The helping, for me, has been 90% of the healing. Hugs!

I have recently gone through the exact same thing. I would be happy to talk to you but only if you are not continuing a relationship with the abuser.

Broken mother:
I am currently in the process of leaving. So we are "together' as in I guess u could say I'm not out of the closet yet with all my friends and family. I move out Oct 15, once I officially move out I will let ppl know. I just want to have action behind my words. We also have four kids so this has complicated things. I am on my way out tho.
Thank you everyone for support.

You can pm me if you like.

I am in this situation. My husband (daughters bio dad) is currently incarcerated as a result of her disclosure on Feb 23rd of this year. We are still waiting on the outcome of his case. I am separated from him and will be pursuing divorce as soon as i can. Please feel free to PM me at any time.

my daughter disclosed march 19. I support my daughter by believing her and keeping her safe from her abuser (my husband, her stepdad), getting her the therapy she needs through Equine therapy and our local Advocacy center. I am separated from my husband, BUT I still LOVE and support HIM and his treatment.
My faith has brought me to this situation, And i'm constantly asking myself WHAT WOULD JESUS DO? And if Jesus can do it then i can pray for the strength, courage, patience and sheer determination to NOT LET EVIL win. Because if this destroys my family, Satan has won. And my God? HES ALREADY OVERCOME.
Six Months later and i don't post on here as i get A LOt OF NEGATIVE and HURTFUL COMMENTS. But you know what , they can believe what they want. I've chosen to let Jesus take control and heal my daughter, heal me. As for my husband? that remains to be seen. I see him trying, and he has a long way to go.
As much as i hate it... this Sad and devasting trauma that has happened does not have to destroy us, Destroy my daughter, destroy me, destroy my family. GOD IS GOOD and he will OVERCOME .... in fact he already has. Because most days I have JOY. and i don't live in the angry, revengeful, depressed world most people are living in.
My husband goes for plea next month, and Prison will likely happen sometime next year. He hasn't seen his Bio kids in 6 months.
BTW- I have had a parenting assessment done as CFS thought i was crazy .... Turns out I'm not. i just understand GODS love and Grace a little bit more.
Without GOD. my family would be in a very ugly place. It's only through him where we are today.